Wednesday, October 30, 2013

A little taste of the upstairs

Last week I decided to give a little tour of the first floor of our forever home.  Since I finally got around to cleaning over the weekend, I can give you a little taste of the upstairs this week!  I don't have much to share as this floor as still a work in the making.  The hallway and bathroom are one color (the same as the entire down stairs - Outer Banks).  The bedrooms are all the same color - Pavilion Beige.  And our master bath is a completely different color - Sea Salt.  This one is probably my favorite!

 Let's start with the upstairs hallway.  


It's boring, however it has one of my favorite features!  We have a giant laundry closet right at the end!  This means I do not have to lug the laundry basket up and down the stairs every time I do laundry.  HUGE plus in my book!


This is our guest room.  The bed fits perfectly into the space left over after a closet was added.  I would really like to paint the wall behind the bed (and surrounding the closet) and turn it into a feature wall.  I am thinking a chocolate brown color, but I am not sure the room is large enough for that color to work.


The walls are pretty bare in this room.  But lucky for our guests, we have a 42" tv for them to enjoy!


The final view of this room.


This is our guest bathroom.  It is far from big, but that makes it much easier to clean.  The walls in this room are bare as well.  We are hoping someday we can make it into a kid's bathroom and decorate it accordingly.


I do LOVE the sink in this bathroom.  My dad's company makes these and we were able to choose exactly what we wanted.  It is difficult to see the color, but it is one of my favorites.


Ahh yes, the master bedroom.  The walls in the room are pretty bare as well.  I know, I know.  I will get there at some point.  I absolutely love this bedding - thank you, Ikea!  Rooney obviously does, too.  You will see that he felt the need to make an appearance in every one of these photos.

We do not have curtains in this room.  Instead, we have white wood blinds to match the woodwork in the room.  The sun rises on this side of the house, so we are able to catch that every morning when we are waking up.  Luckily, those blinds close for the weekend!


We have a cathedral ceiling in the room and absolutely love it.  The door opens to the master bath.  Rooney is not picky about which part of the bed he lays on.


This wall is so bare.  Yuck.  The far door opens to our walk-in closet which is so not clean enough to share!  Again, Rooney takes the spotlight.  You can see the amount of natural light that comes into this room even through the blinds.


And finally, the master bath.  Double sinks?  YES!  (Also from my dad and my FAVORITE color!.. again, hard to see.)  Space?  Tons!  And a window that overlooks our back yard that is generally filled with deer, squirrels and other wildlife every morning.  The shelves above the toilet hold various things.  TP, obviously.  The second holds a Duck from the town where we always stay in the Outer Banks.. Duck.  And the third shelf owns our professional beach pictures from the week of our wedding and an old wooden tape measure that was my Grandfather's.  I used to play with them all of the time and usually ended up snapping them in half.  This one is still in tact!


This soaker tub looks phenomenal, and it is.  However, it takes about a gazillion gallons of water to fill and quite frankly, we run out of hot water before it gets to that point.  It also gets dusty because we rarely use it, but I love having the option.  The shelf above holds some of pretty cool stuff.  The beach chairs were our wedding cake toppers.  The fan in the back was one of our favors.  The starfish was a wedding decoration.  The yellow frame in the back holds my favorite quote - What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)


And finally, the shower.  Again, not gigantic, but a good size.  Rooney and Sophie think this one is pretty great because they can just walk in an out whenever they please.  Including when one of us is in the shower.  Hey, whatever works for them, right?  If you look in the background you can see the kick a$$ natural light from the open blinds.  And our unmade bed with crap all over the floor.

So, there you have it.  A little peak in to the unfinished second floor of our house.  Probably pretty boring, I know.  As I stated in the last post, we have two additional bedrooms that I did not include.  Hopefully they can make their debut on future posts as a nursery or something.  Fingers crossed and prayers galore.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

One Year Ago & Downstairs House Tour

I seem to have been a bit MIA from the blog world for a few weeks.  My apologies!  Life has been a bit busy and there has not been much to blog about.  However, today I decided to do a little flashback to one year ago at this time.

Last year at this time we were making some pretty huge decisions.  At the time we owned two homes.  Yes, two.  We each owned a home prior to dating/getting married.  We eventually moved into Matt's townhouse because it was new and bigger and we turned my duplex house into a rental property.  Last summer Matt went to the gym and saw a former student/player whose father is a well known local builder.  He mentioned that he had a designed a home and they had just started putting up the frame.  We decided to drive by and take a look.  I immediately fell in love.  Not only was this the type of house I always dreamed of owning, but the location was on that could not be beat.  So, I made Matt call and get a price and additional information immediately.  I mean immediately!

We were far from ready to buy our "forever home", but we decided to talk to our realtor anyway.  Fast forward one month.  We are now married, have two homes on the market, and have a contingency contract on our forever home.  Were we crazy?  Without a doubt.  We decided to put both homes on the market in hopes that one would sell and our tenants would live in the other.  At the time, where we live the market was more of a buyers market than a sellers market.  And a townhouse on our street had just gone under short sale.  We had tons of showings at the townhouse we lived in and a few at the rental (which is what we expected and wanted), but no bites.  Our contingency contract was good until December 31, 2012.. so we had to do something by that point because there was no way we could afford three mortgages, even with two of them being rental properties.

Right around this time a year ago (after being on the market for six full months) we had a showing at the townhouse that resulted in a second showing.  And then a third with additional family members.  And finally.. an offer!  We were lucky enough to get our asking price and only had to pay a portion of the closing costs.  (We were desperate at this point.)  That meant we could close on the new house AND the old house by the end of the year.. a huge weight lifted off of our shoulders.

Our closing date for the new house was set for November 18th--three days before Thanksgiving!  We were lucky enough to have a good enough relationship with the builder that he allowed us to take over the utilities a week ahead of time and move things in the weekend before the holiday.  That was huge -- especially since basketball season had just started and Matt's availability was slim to none.  My family spent Thanksgiving at our house.  They helped us move, unpack, decorate, and even made Thanksgiving dinner.

We have come a long way in a year.  The entire downstairs is done--for now.  I'm sure I will eventually want to repaint some things and I definitely want to add a backsplash to the kitchen.  We added a patio off of the back door and a fire pit in the back yard.  We planted a lonely shrub that is surrounded by flowers in the spring and summer.

The upstairs is a work in progress for many reasons.  Our bedroom is mostly done.. we still need a few things on the walls.  Our master bath and closet are done.  We have a guest room that is fully furnished, but I would like to paint one feature wall in the room.  Our second bath is done, but needs some wall decor.  And finally, we have two empty bedrooms that are just waiting to be filled!

We have hopes of finishing half of the basement in the future.. but that is in the distant future.  For now, we couldn't be happier with our forever home and the progress we have made!  Even though we bought it brand new, there were still things we wanted to accomplish to make it "ours".  The dogs especially love the 3.5 acres they have to roam and the constant wildlife they get to bark at and chase!  (We have deer, squirrels, rabbits, groundhogs a plenty, and so much more on a daily basis!)

Here is a tour of our downstairs!  I promise, the upstairs will follow soon!

The lighting is bad, but this is our dining room.  The table was my Grandmothers.  I am so glad I get to have a piece of her in our home.

Another view of the dining room.  I upholstered the chairs last summer.  The painting was done by a friend who is an artist.

Last view of the dining room.  This includes Rooney's "house", one of my favorite wedding pictures, and a print from my Grandma.

The current look of the front of our house.  I did cut off the garage.  Happy Fall!

He lonely shrub.  He has doubled in size since May!

Hydrangea.. my Grandma's favorite!

Our kitchen.  Not huge, but big enough.

We have an open concept floor plan. The kitchen opens right up into the family room.

Another view of our family room.  It is literally half of our first floor.

The final view of the family room.  We are in love with this sectional.  However, we have to keep it covered with dog blankets 99% of the time.  They destroy everything!

Just the boring old hallway spruced up with some wedding pictures.

Part of the powder room.  I think I'd like to change this color eventually as well.

Love the pedestal sink.

The rear view of our house.  A good friend does pavers and stamp concrete and we couldn't be happier with the pavers, design, and look we chose!  Thanks, Tony!  Stacy.. we are good bosses.

Our side yard/property.  I had to take a picture of the changing leaves.  This is seriously my favorite time of the year.

The fire pit and back yard.

How it all began!





Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Much needed weekend getaway

Matt and I had originally planned to go to Vegas back in February.  We planned the trip and booked everything when his basketball team was 5-6.  Low and behold, his team ended up winning every single game after that (sixteen.. yes, sixteen in a row) and made it to county and district playoffs.  This was a great thing for the team, but a bad thing for our Vegas Vacay.  The county championship just so happened to be the weekend we were scheduled to go away, so we had to cancel the hotel and postpone our plane tickets.  **Maybe some day I will include the picture of Matt in his attire from that game!  Gotta pay up when you lose a bet!

Our original plan was to book the same trip.  However, somewhere along the way our destination changed.  Our tickets had to be used by October 1st, so we booked our four-day San Francisco weekend the second week of September, right after our failed FET cycle.  Nothing like waiting until the last minute, right?  But, not much choice when you are in the middle of IVF and have no idea where you will be, and when.

Why San Francisco?  We really don't know.  Neither of us had ever been there and there were things we definitely wanted to see and do.  We needed this getaway more than anything right now, and it is a good thing we went when we did, because half of the places we visited are closed as of today with the government shutdown!

Here are more than a few pictures to document our weekend.


Chrissy Park/Field


You can't go to California and not eat here!

Fisherman's Wharf

I was seriously in love with these things!

Ahh.. yes WE can!

Lombard Street

Half Moon Bay



Santa Cruz

West Coast - Davenport





Union Square

Lombard Street


Golden Gate







Chowder in a bread bowl

Alcatraz









Recreation "yard"


Solitary Confinement





Rodeo Beach, Sausalito







We really did have a great time and it was just what we needed!

As far as an update on our IVF journey.. there is not much to update about.  We will be doing a third cycle (second frozen embryo transfer) when things are what they need to be.  Until that time, we are just trying to enjoy ourselves and do things that are good for us.  We are exhausted, but ready to push forward.  We could not be more thankful for all of your love, prayers and support, and would be nothing but grateful if you would continue send your love, keep us in your prayers, and support us in any way possible.